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that smell from yesterday

While leaving work today, a sampler vial of perfume I had in my makeup pouch spilled, resulting in wisps of a flowery scent wafting out of my handbag while I attempted to fish my security pass out.

I stood in the lift alone, looking over my shoulder, taking in the scent which was both familiar, yet alien at the same time, trying to seperate the different notes and trying to retrieve that stray memory it had surfaced in my mind.

And then I remembered: A large room with walls covered by shelves of bottles of different hues of amber, a small glass of mint leaves soaked in hot tea, smoke from a shisha, my uncomfortable perch on a woven chair.

This was the smell of that perfume shop from that magic day walking around the white hot sand of Saqqara.

The lift door opened. I stepped out, noticing for the first time my dance gear in a holdall dangling from the crook of my left arm from dance class at lunch today.

I hummed that Arabic pop song and walked on, in that cloud of mystery scent, towards home.

If you look closely enough, you’ll find that life is largely magic.

staying together

I had a good chat with someone I haven’t spoken to in a while this afternoon and found out that she had actually left her husband after about five to six years of marriage.

One of the things she had told me was that she was constantly unhappy with him for all manners of things. They were small things but they all added up and one day, it just hit her that hey, she hasn’t been happy for a really long time.

“But it didn’t occur to me that there was a problem for a long while,” she said, “Because my parents are divorced and spend a lot of their lives being unhappy with each other. I thought that’s how a marriage is, that married people are supposed to be constantly unhappy with each other.”

I remember attending her wedding at Villa Bali so many years back and her (then) boss walking her down the aisle because her (still) estranged parents couldn’t agree to attend the wedding together.

Looking at my own marriage, I don’t think I’ve ever been seriously annoyed or unhappy with The Other Half ever in all of our time together. When we are upset with each other, we exchange words, and then the moment passes and we just get on with the programme.

So while I gear up to do my three reunion dinners this Chinese New Year, I shall remind myself not to take this happiness, this contentment for granted, to work at giving the children a positive impression of relationships to take with them into the future.

almost closure

From One of our Thursdays is Missing by Jasper Fforde:

I thought for a moment. Of the untidy chaos I had seen in the RealWorld; of not knowing what was going to happen; of not knowing what, if anything, had relevance. The RealWorld was a sprawling mess of a book, in need of a good editor. I thought then of the narrative order here in the BookWorld, our resolved plot lines and the observance of natural justice we took for granted.

‘Literature is claimed to be a Mirror of the World,’ I said, ‘but the Outlanders are fooling themselves. The BookWorld is as orderly as people in the RealWorld hope their own world to be – it isn’t a mirror, it’s an aspiration.’

‘Humans,’ said Sprockett, ‘are the most gloriously bizarre creatures.’

‘Yes,’ I said with a smile, ‘they certainly are.’

One of my overdue judgements was released last Friday and collected and delivered to me in the course of this morning. I sat in my desk restlessly, paced around the office, and generally loitered suspiciously around until I received it in my hands and read it all the way through.

In the afternoon, I went to Court to attend one matter, then sat in the bar room, had a cup of tea, and read the last 3 chapters of my book to escape.

There’s nothing else left to do. Tomorrow is another day.

From One of Our Thursdays is Missing by Jasper Fforde:

It felt like covering for a character in a book without being told what the book was about, who was in it, or even what your character was doing up until then.

unimpressed

Said Peanut to me after the balloon man at The Buddha’s party handed her a balloon teddy bear:

Mummy, I don’t want a bear! I want a BALLOON!!!

I walked the increased distance to the train station with my lovely sunglasses, with the world bathed in a golden glow through its lenses, listening to my current favourite song by Fun (your heart isn’t breaking and mine isn’t making a sound), looking forward.

My father would at some point later today surrender the keys to our family home for the last 35 years to a HDB officer, closing the door of the by now completely gutted flat for the very last time.

I would throw the usual lunch for the people who work for me, the last lunch for this long year of 2011, then leave work for the very last time this year to buy a present for The Buddha’s daughter’s birthday party in 2 days.

At some point next year, I would like to move my whole family, cats and all, into a new home out of our current rental apartment so house hunting starts in 2 months.

It’s been a really long year. And I have been here for far too long to count, so much so that when the unexpected letter was received, I was not very much fazed by it at all.

So what else is there left but to wish that next year would be more of a walk in a park than the last.

As always, may we all be better people in the new year.

year end happenings

1. Peanut turns 3 years old.

After waiting all year and returning home with birthday goodie bags from school every other week and partaking in everyone else’s birthday festivities, Peanut finally gets to blow the candles of her own birthday cake!

2. Moving out

The Parents have more or less moved out of our family apartment for the last 35 years into a newer place down the road. It’s been a really trying time – trying to fit into the new space, trying to get used to living, cooking, sleeping in the new place, trying to get used to walking a longer distance to the train and childcare and everything else.

3. A little baby is borne!

Congratulations to Elmi and Algene! We’ve been waiting all year for this!!

You have no idea how incredibly happy I am for you.

[all the words unspoken]

4. More help at work

The new associate whom The Buddha hired to work for me finally arrives! He smokes, he drinks, he has no dietary restrictions, he’s attentive and seems quite sharp and normal…it’s really beginning to look like we will get along famously.

But then, yesterday afternoon, he told me that his sister and I were classmates back in Secondary School…say what?!

I’ve always referred to my secondary school days as the “lost years” of my life. So when he tells me that his sister was my classmate, and someone whom I didn’t get along with (and there are many of those given that I am mostly a social misfit), and he says it with this impish sheepish smile, it is all a little bit of a disaster for me.

So the first promisingly normal person I’ve hired in years turns out to be the little brother to someone I didn’t care for in secondary school, who knew me at possibly the worst period of time of my life. What are the chances?

All I can say is that I have seriously bad hiring karma.

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So if I do not check in again before, Merry Merry Merry Christmas to all who drop by from the grouchy dude:

rainy days and luck

He: When are you coming to Court?

Me: I can’t come to Court yet. My “driver” aka The Buddha hasn’t come to work yet.

He: That’s the most bourgeois excuse I’ve ever heard from anyone! But that’s okay. Let’s meet later on in the morning then.

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He: [angrily] I waited for you till 11am!! You were not here so I mentioned and adjourned it!!!

She: I’m sorry. I walked through puddles to get to the train this morning. As such, I had to wait for my shoes to dry before I could come.

*stunned silence*

He: [resigned] It has been adjourned till February.

She: Thank you. For not killing me, for accepting my excuse, and for the long adjournment.

He: If it were someone else, I would have been taken aback. But with you, I’m not even surprised anymore.

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It seems like the older I get, the more obnoxious I become.

And I’m really lucky to have people around who put up with me :)

moving house

I sat in the empty hall, a basket full of toys between Lion and me. In the kitchen was my father, putting cutlery and pots into boxes.

It was storming out.

As I watched Lion running around the hall, poking at the toys, I recalled another time where I sat at the doorway with my Melody doll house while my mother pottered about the kitchen, all waiting for my father to come home from work.

Has 31 years really just gone by like that?

After, everywhere I looked and everything I saw made me want to cry.

Email to Tech Support

Subject: Problem

Guys,
My email signature has gone on a holiday.
Can help?
Thanks!

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Email from Tech Support

Dear [JoMelChaton]

This message contains important information regarding your Support Case #102838.

We will attend to your request shortly.

Should you have any questions or require further assistance please contact us and we will be happy to assist you.
Best Regards,
[Tech Support]

Note: This is a computer generated email. Do not reply directly to this email.

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A while thereafter, I realised that while I was away from my desk, Tech Support had remotely messed with my computer and created a new folder on my desktop for my documents. Hence, the reason why my email signature went on holiday was probably because it was shifted from its original location.

So I re-configured the email signature and got on with life.

Two hours later, a Tech Support person showed up at the door of my office and I told him that I had solved the problem myself and he went away.

Then I received this email:

Dear [JoMelChaton],

Thank you for your request.

Symptom
Problem

Solution
User managed to resolved her problem.

Best Regards,
[Tech Support]

Note: This is a computer generated email. Do not reply directly to this email.

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I did all that I could not to run screaming away from my desk.

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